Unworthiness is a learned behavior from the unconscious actions of your parents, society and caregivers. It’s a deeply rooted pattern of living and takes a conscious effort to shift out of. It’s a pattern passed down from your ancestors by how people lived and what was said.
My parent’s favorite line was, “money doesn’t grow on trees.” Plus, “you need to work for money.” Naturally, I believed I had to work hard to make a living. I’ve been working since my teenage years. I love what I do now, and even as a young adult, I’ve had fun careers. As a child, I noticed that everything we had broke and wondered why. I soon learned unworthiness ran deep in our eastern European roots.
22 Signs of Unworthiness
Respect is number on the list of living a worthy life. Self-respect emotionally, mentally and spiritually takes self-awareness. Here are 22 signs and patterns of unworthiness
- Disrespect of others and their time
- Lack of honesty wastes time
- Flawed life choices sabotage careers, finances and personal relationships
- Fail to take proper care of yourself
- Criticism and gossiping about others
- You are a people pleaser
- Fearful of making the wrong decision
- Full of regrets
- Believe you are not deserving
- Feel inferior or nervous around certain people
- believe you need to do something to be loved
- Afraid to make the wrong decisions
- Deprive yourself of things you want
- Fear you don’t live up to other’s expectations
- Fearful of telling the truth
- Have a challenging time expressing yourself
- Feel guilty
- Think you are defective in some way
- Take other’s opinions personally
- Have no idea what your dreams and desires are
- Allow others to take advantage of you
- Are fearful of listening to inner guidance
Sign up for Activate Worthiness Course
Activate Worthiness Course consists of three audio recordings. Shift from unworthy to worthy by listening to the subconscious healing on the audio recordings. All you need to do is sit back and listen. It’s ok if you fall asleep. Keep a worthiness journal to notice your mindsets shift as the old patterns change and you embody self-worth in the following weeks.